Update to this situation;

Since this was posted- I have received two emails from someone who will not identify themselves beyond an email address, claiming to "know" all about these people/this person and of course they are doing charitable works he/she states. Both emails have been "helpful tips" that I should remove this post as it is slanderous. Email received today indicates that he/they (?) will be taking me to court for such "slander"- problem is, all of the "helpful tips" and bits of information are contrary to the way the world works- this person knows a detail or two that they would not have known if they were not either intimately acquainted with, or are, the people involved in this situation.

So- let's see what occurs...